By Reuben Olita, Busia
The Ugandan tradition of women kneeling while greeting men is a cultural gesture that some believe Kenyan women should consider emulating.
This uncommon display of respect has become a topic of admiration, with some suggesting it could even attract Kenyan men to Uganda—the land of bananas and the Pearl of Africa—in search of such respectful partners.
During a visit to her sister Irene Akano in Amagoro on Tuesday, Asamo Elizabeth surprised many when she knelt while greeting Deacon Abednego Emai of Chrisco Co-Workers Church, located in Teso North Sub-County, Busia County.
Speaking to the press, Elizabeth explained that the practice is deeply rooted in Ugandan culture and faith, inspired by biblical figures like Mary, the mother of Jesus, who is believed to have knelt in humility when greeting others.
“Kneeling down shows the respect we owe our husbands and elders,” she said. “It’s natural to us. Even children are taught to kneel when greeting older people—it is part of who we are.”
Deacon Emai described Elizabeth’s gesture as a sign of deep humility and reverence. “Jesus wanted us to live such humble lives. When you go to a new place, kneeling is a way of seeking God’s blessings and honoring others.”
He added, “Respect is something that you give and, in return, receive. It is a gift passed on through humility.”
While he did not insist that Kenyan women adopt the kneeling tradition, Deacon Emai emphasized the broader message: showing respect to husbands and elders is essential. “It’s not just about kneeling—it’s about the attitude of respect that should be cultivated in all relationships.”
David Idewa, a security officer based in Kisumu, suggested that the practice of kneeling before men may have originated in Japan and was later adopted by Ugandans and some Teso communities in Kenya.
“Kenyan women often dismiss such gestures, pretending to know everything while lacking the humility to show respect,” he said. “Traditionally, women were expected to honor men—but now it seems only Ugandan women and a few from Teso still uphold this.”
